In this episode of the Widow, Wisdom and Wealth™ podcast, we had an inspiring conversation with Kathy Lentz, a certified life celebrant and owner of Kindred Soul. Kathy’s work goes beyond traditional funeral services by helping individuals plan celebrations for their lives and special events. In this blog post, we’re going to dive into the important topics Kathy shared, like pre-planning your own farewell event, and how it can be a gift to those you love.
Who is Kathy Lentz?
Kathy Lentz is the founder of Kindred Soul and a certified life celebrant specializing in creating personalized life celebrations. She works with funeral homes and families to honor the stories and intentions of the departed, crafting meaningful and memorable services. Her journey into this career was shaped by her experiences in healthcare administration and hospice volunteer management, where she learned the power of meaningful commemorations.
The Importance of Pre-Planning
Kathy emphasizes the value of planning your own memorial or life celebration. It’s a way to ensure your life is honored in the manner you wish while relieving your loved ones of the emotional and logistical burdens during a difficult time. Planning can include everything from song selections and themes to the type of service, whether traditional or non-traditional.
Creating a Celebration That’s Uniquely Yours
A key takeaway from our conversation was the idea of making your celebration personal. Whether it’s opting for a humorous theme, incorporating special songs, or choosing an unexpected venue, your final farewell should reflect your personality and passions. Kathy shared a touching story about a service she conducted where attendees donned red noses in honor of a woman’s comedic spirit, creating a moment of levity and remembrance.
Getting Started: How to Plan Your Own Fun Funeral
For those ready to embark on this planning journey, Kathy recommends starting by reflecting on your passions, favorite memories, and the people who matter most. Consider what you’d like your service to convey and how you want your story to be told. Engaging in conversations with loved ones about your wishes can also ease any discomfort around the topic and ensure your intentions are understood.
Bringing Your Vision to Life with Support
Kathy and professionals like her can guide you through the process, providing the resources and support to create a memorable event. From organizing venues and logistics to acting as a celebrant, having a compassionate and experienced guide can make all the difference.
Conclusion
Our discussion with Kathy Lentz highlighted the transformative power of planning your own memorial, not just as a practical necessity but as a celebration of life. By embracing this opportunity, you can leave behind a legacy that reflects who you are and what you cherished. As Kathy says, “Every life should be remembered, every person should be honored.” By having these conversations and taking actionable steps now, you can ensure that your farewell is not only a reflection of your life’s journey but also a cherished memory for those you leave behind.
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